

”’We yearn for deeply meaningful relationships, but many of us lack the skills to realize our dream. We’ve simply never been taught how. And in a world that’s more disconnected than ever, we desperately need to shift into a more relational, connection-cherishing culture.”

Kat Malickay
The Love Expert
Kat Malickay here: an open-minded, insightful, inspiring and direct RLT Certified Relationship & Couple Communication Coach.
Being RLT Certified means I’m specially trained in Terry Real’s highly effective methods to help you heal relational trauma and build fiercely intimate connections. We work to equip you with lifelong tools for authentic, connected living, aiming for profound changes quickly.
I am easy to talk to, approachable and instantly make my clients feel at ease because I truly get them; never taking myself too seriously. I bravely call things what they are to challenge both sides of a couple’s story to find clarity.
My sessions are FUN, truly INTENSE, and highly TRANSFORMATIVE. My clients frequently achieve exceptional results in just 3-6 months. I am highly resourceful, reliable, organised and flexible when it comes to the logistics of managing our calls. So hiring me means getting speedy help targeted at exactly the right areas, smart advice and priceless, long-lasting results.
My coaching style is very unique; I intuitively go where others would hesitate to step foot. I like to be vulnerable and share my own unique journey with my clients, building solid work bonds. I believe that anything is possible in the game of love once we change the stories we tell ourselves daily. And the result? My clients find that aha moment when they finally accept themselves, become alive and experience powerful, long-lasting connections in their relationships.


Centering What Truly Matters in Love — The FIT Way
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Each session is a joyful space to laugh, explore, and rediscover the lighter side of love. It’s where meaningful moments meet playful energy.
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Deep, focused experiences that invite vulnerability and real connection. The intensity lies in showing up fully—heart, mind, and body.
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ransformative
Designed to create lasting shifts, every session inspires change. Through presence and care, we nurture growth in individuals and relationships.

Centering What Truly Matters in Love — The FIT Way
Fun
Each session is a joyful space to laugh, explore, and rediscover the lighter side of love. It’s where meaningful moments meet playful energy.
Intense
Deep, focused experiences that invite vulnerability and real connection. The intensity lies in showing up fully—heart, mind, and body.
Transformative
Designed to create lasting shifts, every session inspires change. Through presence and care, we nurture growth in individuals and relationships.
Who is this for?
- Married Couples dealing with communication breakdown, ineffective conflict management, trust and intimacy issues, immediate post-infidelity recovery
- Unmarried/Engaged Couples entering a new relationship stage, navigating through their differences, setting healthy boundaries with their families of origin
- Individuals in relationships desiring to become better partners, learning to connect in a healthy way or understanding their childhood adaptations
- Partners on a crossroads struggling to make a decision of staying or leaving their relationship
- Couples or individuals going through separation, divorce or interested in conscious uncoupling
- Singles looking for solid self-esteem, advice on boundary setting or specific dating advice
- People with destructive relationship patterns (codependency, love/sex addiction, lack of self-worth/self-love, commitment issues)
- LGBTQIA+ Community experience

What Clients Say
“Kat is an amazing therapist-coach, she led us through a difficult process with attunement, great energy, equal support and challenge. She was always empathic and quickly helped us negotiate through. One of her main strengths is being human- really understanding feelings, emotions at the same time as treating us as individuals with a different set of needs and different readiness’ to engage. I must say she has enabled us see the bigger picture and dig deep into our different childhood experiences in a gentle way. Our relationship is stronger because of her and we will both be eternally grateful to her. She has also made us better at self reflection, personal boundaries and understanding how we communicate. I would recommend her whole heartedly and would encourage anyone who is struggling in relationships to see her.“
— Leanne C.
“The results we have had from working with Kat in just a few sessions have been fantastic. Kat managed to pinpoint exactly what our main issues were within the first session, and provided us with advice and tools to start improving our situation straight away. We have worked with relationship counsellors in the past which haven’t made a difference, so we were reluctant to try again. But I’m so glad we did. Kat has a very different approach. She gets to the root of the problem very quickly, so that lasting change can take place. I would recommend Kat to anyone who needs a bit of helping hand with their relationship..”
— Karen G.
Firstly, Kat is a very intelligent lady. I have vast experience with therapies and Kat is exceptional. She really knows what she is talking about. Such a warm and charming being. We felt relaxed and safe immediately. Kat really listened and heard us, digested the information and came back with clear answers and inspirational homework. She took on a huge amount of information in such a short space of time, she didn’t miss a thing. We highly recommend this Lady if you are serious about improving your life and relationships.
— Aimie
“Kat has been pivotal in helping our relationship find its spark again. She has worked with different personalities and helped us find a common and understanding ground. Our communication is open again and working towards goals we had not even thought of. I would highly recommend Kat. She is very personable and easy to talk to which helps to deal with topics that would usually feel awkward or hard to talk about.“
— Stacey M.
My husband and I contacted Kat in a bid to save our marriage and were terrified of having couples counselling because it’s so far out of our comfort zones. Six weeks into it, Kat has already helped us to inject new life into our relationship and is guiding us as we navigate and overcome some major issues, while highlighting changes we need to make as individuals. She leads the sessions (rather than being passive like many therapists are), pulls no punches, calls out bad behaviours and is direct but caring, which is exactly what we needed. Kat has shown that she is an expert at what she does and she quickly identified the issues and behaviours that were causing my husband and me to feel stuck in the past. I wish we’d found her years ago.
— Sarah




