
Don’t cement your stories.
What you’re seeing isn’t your partner — it’s your partner filtered through every assumption you’ve made about them. That filter is the story. And it’s rarely accurate..
WHAT IS RELATIONAL LIFE THERAPY?
A common human desire is to experience profoundly meaningful relationships, yet many individuals feel unequipped to achieve this, largely because such relational skills are rarely taught. Given our modern world’s tendency towards disconnection, there’s an urgent need to cultivate a societal mindset that cherishes and prioritizes strong interpersonal bonds.
Developed by leading couples therapist Terry Real, Relational Life Therapy (RLT) has gained recognition for its power to bring about deep and enduring transformations. The approach guides clients in healing from relational trauma and forging genuinely intimate connections. RLT is as much about imparting knowledge as it is about healing, providing individuals with enduring tools to lead lives full of connection and fearless authenticity.
RLT often challenges conventional therapy norms by aiming for rapid, in-depth work that helps clients achieve substantial changes quickly. Therapists and coaches using RLT tend to be authentic, transparent, and forthright in their interactions. They hold high expectations for their clients’ progress, anticipating—and often seeing—remarkable and speedy positive shifts.

I DON’T PLAY NEUTRAL
- I’ll name the pattern the moment I see it, not weeks later
- Real assignments between sessions — small, specific things to try, not vague homework
- No open-ended venting — each session has a focus and moves somewhere
- You’ll leave knowing exactly what to work on before we meet again
- Friction gets addressed head-on — we don’t tiptoe around what’s actually happening between you
- You’ll learn to catch yourself switching into old, protective patterns — before that moment runs the whole conversation
- Both of you get called in, not just the one who agreed to come to coaching
- Expect direct feedback in the room, not just polite nodding until the hour’s up
- A lasting shift in awareness and reactivity — not just a suggested change in behaviour

Modalities
Certified Strategic Intervention Coach (Tony Robbins)
Attachment Theory/Attachment Styles
The Developmental Model in Couples Therapy (Ellyn Bader)
Certified Relational Life Therapy Coach (Terry Real)
The Art of Relational Living
Working with Infidelity
The Relationship Grid Placements
The Relational Brain
Working with Limiting Beliefs
Relational Parenting
Working with Grandiosity

Kat Malickay – Love Molecules
RLT Relationship & Couples Communication Coaching
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08:00 AM – 03:00 PM
